I am trying to simulate deformation (and failure) due to a statically applied Force. I am using CLOAD card to apply the force. I read online that I need to ramp up the force in 300 ms. So, I have added a curve to ramp up the force. I am running the simulation for 310 ms (ENG_RUN/Tstop = 310). Per the screenshot below, it will take forever to finish the simulation. So, I have most likely setup something incorrectly.
What should be the appropriate setup to apply a load (increasing from 0 kN to say 4 kN), so that I can identify at what load different connections fail?
Also, the ERR = -99.9% in the screenshot below. I am assuming that this is not acceptable.

Any guidance, tips, or suitable examples would help.