Greetings to everyone!
This is quite common question on the forum, but I will open it again with a simple model so that maybe we will add something new.
I didn't use excessive loads in the model and the model itself is straight forward rectangular tube welded on a plate. I tried S2S and N2S, I tried clearence 0, I tried using property ID contact definition, I used CNTSTB in the loadsteps, EXPERTNL in the cards, rearranged to SPCs, used even lower loads, thicker plates. I don't use non-linear materials in the model since I am only interested in the non-linear behavior of the contact.
What can go wrong in this situation, is there something I am missing? I will attach the model.